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There are two type of people who will tell you that you can’t make a difference in this world: those who are afraid to try and those who are afraid you would succeed – ray Goforth.

Welcome to Verveardor, lately we have discussed about some earning ways  which we would continually to shed more light on as our readership, followers and subscribers keep growing, well that been said, today we shall be talking about success in our own individual view that is in the manner we quantify it and how we set ourselves to be successful for Jim Rohn quoted “successful people do what unsuccessful people are not willing to do, don’t wish it were easier , wish you were better”, Trying not to be the man of success but the man of value are the words of Albert Einstein.

I have been taking a lot of inspirational messages lately and some I have put together to make this post come alive for we all pray, hope and wish to be successful or should I say victorious in our own different ways I I believe we should come to understand that success is as a result of uncommon thinking in common things, for you to be successful, you need to see things differently from what it looks to the eyes you may be thinking life as a math that we all need the same formula to solve a problem and get the same result at the end, NO! Its more about believing the world is yours, appreciating the thing in it, going out to get it and controlling your circumstances irrespective of what you have and what you don’t not forgetting that there is a fine line between success and failure and you can’t be in the middle... its either you are winning or losing and don’t feel overwhelmed in whichever position you find yourself for you won’t always be winning neither would you always be losing, and failure I pray you never be afraid of failure but rather be afraid to not persevere, get up and try again for accepting defeat s true failure. As Winston Churchill quoted, success is not final and failure is not fatal; it is the courage to continue that counts.

Now how do you quantify success? Some may say it is the amount of assets acquired in a given period of time or the amount of accomplishments achieved under a period maybe a life time according to different perspective but success is not just about what we accomplish or able to earn we believe it’s more about the greatness we inspire in the life of others, here at Verveardor, “we believe to growth is achieved when we inspire others to grow for whatever doesn’t grow is dead”  for we can all make the accomplishments out of nothing, again and again yes, put in the work, the money the time and they would all come but the single life that we help grow positively is priceless for knowingly or unknowing ly we are growing; where we were some years back and how we were is not how we are today but how about those around us, we should Endeavor to grow and let our growth reflect in the life of those around us, now that’s what success is all about for its just have those positive and uncommon ideas, relentless action but having an impacting spirit leads to success. Also let a fact be known that money or having money is not totally been successful it shouldn’t even be rated as been successful,  money is meant to come and go as the saying goes spend money to make money so as such, we can say money is essential it should be made as it’s a way of life but cannot be measured as been successful.

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                                                “DO NOT MAKE MONEY YOUR GOAL”

Success as we said earlier is the result of uncommon thinking for it adds value to a person so in other words, been successful is having value a value that reflects not just in our lives but in our society at large.

The ones who are crazy enough to think they can change the world are the ones that do – anonymous

Looking at the quote above its no different from what we said earlier, for you to be successful you need to think differently, Rick Ross said “separate yourself from the average” it’s not in where you live or how you live its more about your mentality, you need to look inwards you need to be crazy enough to see things differently than what they actually seem to be, also don't forget to pray.

We hope you look inwards today and reshape your society. One love from #VerveardorFamily

Hi everyone its really good to be here again, over time, we have discussed a lot …

our judgmental instincts, dreams and nightmares, its a goal, drug abuse, the power of thank you etc.

But we haven’t really got to talk about a very crucial topic even when we participating in them on daily basis and that is MONEY which is a very crucial part of our lives.

Now money which we would be discussing won’t be just money we all know what money is but we shall talk about earning it, utilizing it and saving it. So for a start we shall be discussing on how to earn it, where to start and also teach you some ways to earn it even from things you have been doing for free.

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This we shall be discussing as we continue in this new half of the year.

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Good day good people of Verveardor #verveardorfamily. I want to start by asking this simple question have you been in a situation where something is wrong with someone, somewhere or between persons however the case may be, we find ourselves looking for a solution to the problem unknown to us that the problem lies under our nose if am to use that word, and yet we break doors, clear fields look in and out of the world even pushing a way things but still the problem continues. We shall be discussing about THE BLIND CAUSE kindly stick with us.

Ever been in that situation where you wish or want to be somewhere but due though one or two circumstances may be unforeseen you find yourself somewhere else.  Well I know some of us have been and it’s worse when remembering you promised to be there and finally you were not or you were late the bottom line remains that you weren’t there when you said you would be or you call it that you weren’t there when you where expected.

I believe each and every one of us has an ambition, a purpose, somewhere we want to be and the best part of it all is we have a strategically placed plan on how we hope to achieve our Goal which we have discussed a while ago. I can’t stop to emphasize on our today’s topic every time I talk about the future, plans and actualizing our heart desires maybe because I believe this is the soul of where and what tomorrow and the future ahead would bring to us in terms of peace, fulfillment and material good.

Take for example in a class there is always a book addict as some would say sitting at the front of the class and in that same class the is another student who doesn’t have a permanent or even a temporary seat, warming every bench that is left empty they both have a lot in common similarities and also differences.

Similarities

They both want to be successful

They both don’t want to be left behind

They both are not satisfied with where and what they have

They both coming from somewhere

They both have an unavoidable pressure

They both have a plan

They both have different ideologies to life

Different approach to their plans

Different stacked up priorities

Different sacrifice to get what they want

What others see or say about you doesn’t change the fact of how you see yourself and what platform you build your mindsets which are propellers of our intentions.

Today we talking about our judgmental instincts which is very active in each and every one of us although a situation different people with different way of which they see it, take for example a person haggardly dressed, some people would just come to the conclusion of  seeing him as insane, poor or bad taste of fashion depending on the person judging they might be right nobody is saying just because you ain’t he person in that situation to know the reason for that action you are wrong- no, well back to today we were able to gather some good update for today’s topic.

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Many at times we smile, laugh, hope and dream in all these feelings and situations we cry loose courage and faith in our self and in our dreams making the road ahead blur and faint. I come here today as your host Tender to let you know that no matter how you are feeling have felt or may seem to be feeling you are not alone many are with you, like you and have been through it.

Now many of us want to get it whatever our heart is laid for, we want to reach it we want to achieve it we all need something in our daily life pursuit (dreams) we see challenges we are constant they pressure us make us feel weary and hopeless in our glittering dreams (Nightmares) with this reason I come to you today to say to you we all should not forget there is not a rainbow without a little rain, before light the night is darkest and there is no victory without countering failure as it is certain for we all to achieve something we need to lose something, we need to grow and for us to grow we need to evolve, let go of some habits learn new ways to life re-orient our mindset and place our focus on the path we have chosen not forgetting that nothing good, no matter how small comes easy especially as it looks for looks most times tend to be deceiving and also inspiring at the same time; I put you through

I ask today is giving up worth it for funny as it may sound till the moment you take your life seriously in all aspect you are never going to leave a serious life am not saying that you should do away with good times and mean business all the time NO! More like knowing why you are where you are, why you are there and what you are there for till you answer these questions within you can’t achieve the purpose of where you are what you are bound to learn and experience for many would pass you in different forms and you would be on a wild goose chase; so to say without achieving anything at the end of the day the heartbreaking part, we finally begin to look for someone or something to blame our own failure on even when we know we are the ones failing our self.

I laid out some bullet point to work on below come along as we walk through it all remember to lay out you voices at Verveardorfamily where you shall be with the discussing community and also, you can tell your story at Verveardor simply Contact us, we love to hear from you.

Before then, I really want you to take a look at your life back and forth, failures and achievements, field work and assignments [field in terms of what we are currently doing and assignment what we tend to work on]

I may not be able to point out pressing issues as what may seem difficult to one may be the easiest for another for all fingers are not equal so also or trials and without wasting much time let’s look at

FAMILY AND FRIENDS

These people tend to be there for many of us most times when the road is bad we find comfort in them and the courage to rely on them in times of need and weary a shoulder, a helping hand they tend to be in every circumstance now what happens when these same people lose faith in you, see no good able to come out you are foretell failure in the path of life you have chosen to follow. Yes I know that feeling, that weakness that deep cut and the unbearable pain this brings along when those who are suppose to serve as encouragers, discourage the quota  we offer seeing it as nothing even at this, this is the point we need our selves most we need our goals to fuel our dreams we need to take a stance by making up our mind to bearing full responsibility of whatever result comes out of our action good, bad or ugly and still not forget our family and friends even if they do not believe in what w do or see light in what we are doing for they are only humans and its natural to have doubts to ask questions, to need convincing so I beg you not to take it to heart and try as much as possible to have an understanding heart.

INFLUENCE

This aspect deals mainly with our environment with our society and community as they determine how we build our mindset if we remember form one of our previous posts we see how an innocent girls life was brought down due to the influence of her environment making her see things differently not knowing the difference between right and wrong. I also ask you today does the society you live in impact on you positively or negatively this may seem hard to decide I suggest you take a trip outside your town  for some time try to see  thing different from how you have always been seeing it I believe you already know the difference between good and bad so take each lesson you learn in your trip t where ever you decide and weigh them, ask questions you can also ask Verveardor we would always be glad to help; and where  you find faults , flaws and setbacks never should you feel far too gone or proud to turn a new leaf it’s never too late to make something good out of yourself this brings us to our next point.

SETBACKS

Let me bring a live example to this *I wish I can make a video of it* just thinking though; well that aside see a boy who has a test at school, wakes up early washes himself takes breakfast and of to school only at two inches to his class room remembers that he forgot an important text book and also his pencil so for him to be able to take the test he needs to get them[setbacks] he leaves for home hurriedly and returning to school the test is already half gone now here is the fine picture, he know he has a test so he prepared his best for it all before leaving now irrespective of the fact the he was late that didn’t stop him from reach his dream of doing well in his test. I know a lot of his class mates on seeing the results and maybe he did extremely well begin to raise eyebrows reason been that it was so obvious he came late for the test but many of them would be quick to forget that its not about how well you start but rather how well you finish. Bottom line don’t let your setbacks take away the goal you desire keep your dreams alive and try as much as possible to be prepared for its no new news that in life anything can happen. Keep your head high people and actualize your focus, Verveardor says so.

POWER HOUSE

Each and every one of us has a power house irrespective of what it may be. A power house yes something that keeps us focused on our goal something we draw or strength and motivation from I want to believe many of us have discovered that piece somewhere somehow it would be of great help if we can keep that part of us alive, nourished and flourishing while we set on the course of actualizing our dreams for as far as you go that piece would definitely not let you go that far you would always have more than a billion reasons to keep up the hustle to keep up the chase and continue even when the odds are stacked against you.

Finally we are leaving now but not without this question, DREAMING OR AWAKEN? Which do you belong are you still fantasizing on where you want to be, wish to be and hope to be well if it’s so than wake up stop building your castle in air but rather make them real and for those who have woken please we beg you don’t go weary at chasing you dream keep every hope of it alive don’t let you as determine your tomorrow be it good or bad and don’t let what you are been told make your existence live learn life and show love and also never forget to pary and to say thank you always remember The Power of Thank You

IT’S A GOAL!!!

Hey you, yes you welcome to Verveardor today we shall talk about setting goals while we all can discuss about our own opinions and strategies towards goal setting not just goal setting but also achieving our goals no matter how steep they may seem to be or where circumstances places us.

Firstly what are goals? Goals from our own point of view is something we plan to achieve and in most cases in a given space of time.  Many of us had set goals at the beginning of the year or rather New Year Resolutions as many call it ranging from different perspective based on the big picture we bear in mind.

Here lies the big question is it a GOAL look inward do you smile, hope, cry or are you procrastinating about the challenge you gave yourself at the beginning of the year we only think of many possibilities but you alone can really answer that question sincerely. I really want us to encourage one another inspire someone with your story send us a mail you can also start it up on Verveardorfamily for it’s a free community out here now with that been said we progress.

SEEING THE BIG PICTURE...

True it is that to every circumstance and every situation there is a bigger picture than what we are been confronted but knowing what the bigger picture is makes it easy setting our goals and prioritising what’s most important  knowing this we ask, What is the bigger picture? How do we figure the bigger picture? These questions and many more run through our minds even as we are reading through and we shall be discussing much on it on our next post …..

 kindly stick around and do share our post with your friends, family and loved ones you never know whose live you might touch for that is what we hope to achieve as a matter of fact that is our goal to positively inspire and elevate the spirit of someone out there.

As we all go to bed today I endeavor each and every one of us too examine ourselves judge our selve our position and our lives in general and I hope you smile not just because you have achieved your goals but because you have achieved that which is most important even though you haven’t achieved it but for the fact that you have figured it out for I want you to see and understand that there is more to life than your present circumstance and won’t let what you are experiencing now Good, Bad, or Ugly determine your faith. Keep in mind that there is always someone here for you to share with reach us on ….. facebook, also join our Verveardorfamily don’t forget to invite your friends and share for that is where the love lies. One love to you all, a big THANK YOU from the entire #teamverveardor.

This is a story of been in love it happens in every love life and we all have to live through this keeping our relationship in good shape well I must say she is or rather was richly and famously in love you never can tell how until you see through it you can always share your review on this.

My husband back in the days I must say I was madly in love with him so in love that I could do anything just to solidify the love I had for him and luckily for me he loved me just the same, stood up for me at all times made me feel courageous made my life full of love strength and good will he was more than a husband to me he was my everything the reason why I continually smile, I felt the true meaning of love or rather been in love.

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He didn’t have much to offer in terms of material things neither did I but we both had a paying job, a house and two beautiful kids who at this point in time where with my mom. We have been married for just seven years and if I am to ask it was the best years of my life but trouble came and all we had was blown into oblivion like there was nothing between us.

It all started with a small misunderstanding we had and suddenly didn’t talk to each other the whole day a, at noon he ate and left though he sounded like he wanted to say something but I didn’t want to listen, he didn’t sleep at home that day which sparked another version of anger in me as I was furious but for some reason which I don’t know I didn’t call him thinking that he would call but he never did till day broke. I went to work the next day as it was a Wednesday with a heavy heart a gloomy face and just annoyed with everyone didn’t find anything in the office that could calm me down of all what was going through in my mind even my colleagues didn’t understand my actions and reactions throughout the whole day but it only got worse when I returned home from work to meet my husband with a girl in our house and her hands patting his neck.

At the sight of that event,, I was furious and so angry I nearly threw what I was carrying at them but I just left the house to cool myself, I ended up in a bar where I drank ‘me out of myself’ I didn’t go home that night but lodged in a hotel for about two weeks after taking a leave from work and changing my numbers to avoid been contacted from my husband for I didn’t want to hear the trash he had to say fortunately for me I told none of my friends my whereabouts or what was happening.

It got to exactly two weeks and I started feeling this guilt in me and had to return home, boredom and idleness brought its toll in my mind and thoughts, so I went home to meet my husband lets figure out what this whole thing was all about as it was building up something in me. I arrived home to meet only the girl at home she welcomed me like we were friends and I didn’t take it funny but let hell loose on her and after much shouting from the both of us she said as I can remember clearly ‘I won’t let myself be insulted for a favour am rendering even though am paid for it’ at this point she dipped her hand in her purse handed me something liquid in a plastic container saying I should take care of my husband I didn’t read the meaning to what she did and said but sent her out of the house still waiting for my husband’s arrival.

Cutting the long story short my husband came home acting worried about my whereabouts which u wasn’t ready to give into as my temper still had its bad effect on me, I flared up and we started with lame talks which heated up and we started shouting at each other asking questions upon questions without aiding for an appropriate answer then suddenly I threw whatever it was that that lady gave to me away at the sight of this my husband started having slurred inaudible speech whilst gasping for air and pointing his finger on the bottle just in a few seconds he fell semi unconscious. Fear gripped me as I managed to get help from our gatekeeper and took him to the hospital where he was taking to the emergency center for about an hour and fourteen minutes I dint see or hear from any one that went in there with him then it dawned on me to reason my life and suddenly I flashed back to the substance I threw away and started trying to find meaning to what it really was, then the doctor called me to his office and asking me what really happened which I explained in the best way possible which l led to him asking me how long has he been having seizures whilst talking and I can’t recall because for the past years I haven’t noticed it and he never told me about it so I had nothing to tell him just as we were speaking a nurse called in to inform him that a patient needs him urgently which he ran to only to return to me, still in his office to break to me the news “sorry ma’am but your husband couldn’t make it”

The whole world came crashing down on me; my eyes felt like it was bleeding, my spirit seemed to have left my body I couldn’t move as my feet got too cold. I felt too destabilized to give an actual reaction; I can’t even explain how I managed to leave the place and return to my quiet home, full of loneliness I couldn’t phantom how to break the news to our family members but I needed to so I reactivated my old lines and within seconds saw the flood of messages that came in 90% of them where from my husband where he tried to understand why I left and where I was, apologizing for any wrong he had done and how sorry he was its grew worse as I kept reading, I got to a text where he told me that he was terribly sick as he sometimes loses his voice and in most cases his breath, fresh tears rolled down my eyes as I remembered the lady touching his neck, the substance she gave me to give to him, the last words she said I cried as I called my mum and told her to contact anyone that matters while I called his parents house and soon the house was full of questioners and consolers but all that went through my mind was it is all my fault, if I had been more tender towards my husband, if I had understood what was happening before reacting I would have known how and why to react it’s all my fault I don’t know what to describe my actions I believe I end it here.

… life and love needs understanding I am also touched by this story I just hope we all learn a thing or two from this stories I think secrets should not be in a relationship anytime is the right time if only she knew that he was sick just if only.

Your opinions are highly welcomed keep this thread alive one love @verveardor #verveardorfamily.

The resourceful ivory called friendship

True alone I came to this world, True alone I shall leave,

Alone I thought I could do wonders

“We all in this world, we all have one head, why can’t I do better”

I always reasoned for I didn’t believe I needed a friend

Someone to lean on in times of distress, someone to celebrate with in good times,

Someone to share my dreams and aspirations with and someone I could trust

Little did I know that without them life is a self made prison and no man is an island of his own we all need each other, those that laugh when we are angry those that understand our pain , those whom never take what we say seriously and those who we would ride or die with.

So who are your friends to who is your mindset convinced to listen to? Believe it or not they contribute in shaping 65% of your thoughts. Verveardor says , build great friends harbor great minds, think good and great thoughts, live a happy life and remember God loves you.

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I rise from the East and sets in the West; I am the Sun

I govern the change from day to night for nature I am

Fair people may not say I am as people are not equal

But fair I am in giving everyone the same opportunity of existence to make something out of it; I am fair enough

The cool breeze I govern, that which goes into the body I understand

Flowing rivers and aquatic life, tall trees and terrestrial lives I abide

Appreciation only few gives though I find no fault in it but few a times have people appreciated the stars, the earth in which they stand, the air they breathe and the water they give and few in numbers remember the less privilege for without them they is no you and without you they is no us.

Give love as I am love even though you can’t understand my actions, you may never do, still give love and let love lead.

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BUILDING YOU MIND SET.

How do you build your mindset?

What do you want to bare in your mind what do you want to occupy your thoughts with and what do you want to come out of you for our actions are decided by the thoughts our mindset is built on.

Does your mindset occupy peace, tranquility and good of thy neighbor, do we have the welfare of our neighbor to heart, do we have the needy, hungry and homeless in good thought, with great thought I ask how do you build you mindset, do you just center it on yourself and around you on material achievement, selfish goals or what? This is all up to you as you host your mind.

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I really hope that we are aware that our mind can make or mar us for it decides our actions and thought it gives power to our tongue of which we know how powerful it is without contemplation I believe we all know what we want in life and have our plans on how to go about it.

Build your mindset today and positively for communal growth kindly share this today help some ine work on his/her mind set, thought and make a fruitful use of the power of the mind.

I was walking down the street I live this evening and was watching the sun set casting shadows of people and of everything it cuts across feeling the mixed air of dust, smoke, warmth but still some fresh air, I reminisced the hands of time since dawn, since the morning alarm to breakfast and I wondered, what impact have I left through the passing hands of today’s time? 

Walking on sunshine

A psychologist asks a boy, how do you manage stress and anger?

I believe in meeting with people of different class race, religion, beliefs, ideology, and character. I believe me when I tell you it’s not just amazing it’s also educating. I tell you something which I believe most of us already know as we grew up from somewhere be it anywhere but we all grew and things has changed, people have changed even we have changed maybe not completely but we all know that within us something’s has changed from a year ago till date, many grew positively and some negatively but they all point to change in our very own self.

Our aesthetic sense is that part of us that appreciates beauty, acknowledges it and is able to distinguish what is beautiful from what is not, this senses distinguishes human as what might be sweet and amazing to one person might be an eyesore to another. 

This senses n us strives for excellence in us, positively by helping us maintain an acceptable relationship with our environment, society, community, country and planet earth at large in our own little and possible way, thanks to today’s green evolution. My question today entails, WHAT IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH PEOPLE AND YOUR ENVIRONMENT AROUND YOU?

Welcome to Verveardor today we shall be talking about culture, I believe we all hail from somewhere and have our various cultural beliefs, well sit back relax and take a walk down with me and kindly do share and like our Facebook page when you done we would appreciate your opinions.

ADDICTION – The fact or condition of been addicted to a particular substance or activity with the need or strong desire to have that which liking has been created towards.

For clarity and better understanding, it is pertinent we know the

meaning of the term--"DRUG ABUSE"

...According to the online
wikitionary dictionary, it defined it as----"MISUSE OF,OR
OVERINDULGENCE IN DRUGS,SUBSTANCE ABUSE"...