Dreams and Nightmares

Many at times we smile, laugh, hope and dream in all these feelings and situations we cry loose courage and faith in our self and in our dreams making the road ahead blur and faint. I come here today as your host Tender to let you know that no matter how you are feeling have felt or may seem to be feeling you are not alone many are with you, like you and have been through it.

Now many of us want to get it whatever our heart is laid for, we want to reach it we want to achieve it we all need something in our daily life pursuit (dreams) we see challenges we are constant they pressure us make us feel weary and hopeless in our glittering dreams (Nightmares) with this reason I come to you today to say to you we all should not forget there is not a rainbow without a little rain, before light the night is darkest and there is no victory without countering failure as it is certain for we all to achieve something we need to lose something, we need to grow and for us to grow we need to evolve, let go of some habits learn new ways to life re-orient our mindset and place our focus on the path we have chosen not forgetting that nothing good, no matter how small comes easy especially as it looks for looks most times tend to be deceiving and also inspiring at the same time; I put you through

·         Deceiving in the sense that it takes away the hurdles in its path and leaves you with the feeling of the glory yet to come, the victory to achieve and clone its path with ease of success so we take the bold step into its path only to walk from one challenge to the other, from one OMG to another Please Help Me making us wonder if we are doing the right thing and if we doing it the right way, if we even have what it takes to achieve the goal we set out for, if what we came for is worth the trial we seem to be facing and finally leave us weary taking away from us the zeal to continue in the path we have chosen.

·         Inspiring as it fills our spirit with adrenaline gives us that inhuman strength, determination to pass every hurdle we find in our path making the price too worthy to be abandoned giving life to our dream undermining the situation we find ourselves and this our motive is drawn from our weakness been over shadowed with the glimpse of the price ahead. This feature very vital but in most cases faint as many are times we tend to give up as we can take it n more.

I ask today is giving up worth it for funny as it may sound till the moment you take your life seriously in all aspect you are never going to leave a serious life am not saying that you should do away with good times and mean business all the time NO! More like knowing why you are where you are, why you are there and what you are there for till you answer these questions within you can’t achieve the purpose of where you are what you are bound to learn and experience for many would pass you in different forms and you would be on a wild goose chase; so to say without achieving anything at the end of the day the heartbreaking part, we finally begin to look for someone or something to blame our own failure on even when we know we are the ones failing our self.

I laid out some bullet point to work on below come along as we walk through it all remember to lay out you voices at Verveardorfamily where you shall be with the discussing community and also, you can tell your story at Verveardor simply Contact us, we love to hear from you.

Before then, I really want you to take a look at your life back and forth, failures and achievements, field work and assignments [field in terms of what we are currently doing and assignment what we tend to work on]

I may not be able to point out pressing issues as what may seem difficult to one may be the easiest for another for all fingers are not equal so also or trials and without wasting much time let’s look at

FAMILY AND FRIENDS

These people tend to be there for many of us most times when the road is bad we find comfort in them and the courage to rely on them in times of need and weary a shoulder, a helping hand they tend to be in every circumstance now what happens when these same people lose faith in you, see no good able to come out you are foretell failure in the path of life you have chosen to follow. Yes I know that feeling, that weakness that deep cut and the unbearable pain this brings along when those who are suppose to serve as encouragers, discourage the quota  we offer seeing it as nothing even at this, this is the point we need our selves most we need our goals to fuel our dreams we need to take a stance by making up our mind to bearing full responsibility of whatever result comes out of our action good, bad or ugly and still not forget our family and friends even if they do not believe in what w do or see light in what we are doing for they are only humans and its natural to have doubts to ask questions, to need convincing so I beg you not to take it to heart and try as much as possible to have an understanding heart.

INFLUENCE

This aspect deals mainly with our environment with our society and community as they determine how we build our mindset if we remember form one of our previous posts we see how an innocent girls life was brought down due to the influence of her environment making her see things differently not knowing the difference between right and wrong. I also ask you today does the society you live in impact on you positively or negatively this may seem hard to decide I suggest you take a trip outside your town  for some time try to see  thing different from how you have always been seeing it I believe you already know the difference between good and bad so take each lesson you learn in your trip t where ever you decide and weigh them, ask questions you can also ask Verveardor we would always be glad to help; and where  you find faults , flaws and setbacks never should you feel far too gone or proud to turn a new leaf it’s never too late to make something good out of yourself this brings us to our next point.

SETBACKS

Let me bring a live example to this *I wish I can make a video of it* just thinking though; well that aside see a boy who has a test at school, wakes up early washes himself takes breakfast and of to school only at two inches to his class room remembers that he forgot an important text book and also his pencil so for him to be able to take the test he needs to get them[setbacks] he leaves for home hurriedly and returning to school the test is already half gone now here is the fine picture, he know he has a test so he prepared his best for it all before leaving now irrespective of the fact the he was late that didn’t stop him from reach his dream of doing well in his test. I know a lot of his class mates on seeing the results and maybe he did extremely well begin to raise eyebrows reason been that it was so obvious he came late for the test but many of them would be quick to forget that its not about how well you start but rather how well you finish. Bottom line don’t let your setbacks take away the goal you desire keep your dreams alive and try as much as possible to be prepared for its no new news that in life anything can happen. Keep your head high people and actualize your focus, Verveardor says so.

POWER HOUSE

Each and every one of us has a power house irrespective of what it may be. A power house yes something that keeps us focused on our goal something we draw or strength and motivation from I want to believe many of us have discovered that piece somewhere somehow it would be of great help if we can keep that part of us alive, nourished and flourishing while we set on the course of actualizing our dreams for as far as you go that piece would definitely not let you go that far you would always have more than a billion reasons to keep up the hustle to keep up the chase and continue even when the odds are stacked against you.

Finally we are leaving now but not without this question, DREAMING OR AWAKEN? Which do you belong are you still fantasizing on where you want to be, wish to be and hope to be well if it’s so than wake up stop building your castle in air but rather make them real and for those who have woken please we beg you don’t go weary at chasing you dream keep every hope of it alive don’t let you as determine your tomorrow be it good or bad and don’t let what you are been told make your existence live learn life and show love and also never forget to pary and to say thank you always remember The Power of Thank You