I believe in meeting with people
of different class race, religion, beliefs, ideology, and character. I believe
me when I tell you it’s not just amazing it’s also educating. I tell you
something which I believe most of us already know as we grew up from somewhere
be it anywhere but we all grew and things has changed, people have changed even
we have changed maybe not completely but we all know that within us something’s
has changed from a year ago till date, many grew positively and some negatively
but they all point to change in our very own self.
Now have you noticed or come
across some people who most times complain of the way things entering and
leaving their lives are?, the people they have been with relate and the people
they are with behave? Some complain about it all, some raise praises and everybody
has his or her own point of view towards how their life reflects though that
might not be the way people may see them; but who has your life rather than you,
you alone know what’s good for you and what’s best for you, you alone can
decide how your life would be.
Many would say Ah! If they hadn’t been feeding
me with wrong thoughts, if I had known I wouldn’t have listened to you and so
on but NO! NO! NO! it’s not that persons fault that he or she sold his personal
opinion to you, most times that might be the only way that person saw through
that situation be it good or bad the person you should try walking on is the
you, the you that didn’t take precaution, the you that just went through and
sorry to say but the you that bought the idea, most times I think we should be
looking inwardly when things go wrong and if possible try placing ourselves in other
people shoes. I tell people always and I keep saying it when you do things or
when you decide to go through with things , do it because you want to do it and
not because someone or something propels or compels you to, you should be able
to make certain decisions in your life by doing so I believe whichever way
things turns out good or bad especially when it turns out bad you would be able
to look inward and see your mistakes, learn from them and work on the
betterment of it rather than apportioning blames to peoples for some reasons or
so; by doing this you would not realize where your flaws are where you need to
work on in your life and where you just need to put in more life and you would
spend time incubating anger which may turn to hatred towards someone who just
wanted to help but this doesn’t mean that some people are not waxed to deceit,
that some friends are not fake some friends are not following the trend these
type of persons are out there with pretty faces and lovely smiles so is wise
and best to choose who we relate too most carefully and what we relate to
people for we all have to rely on each other to survive and so we need to
commune with one another.
Now let’s not forget the part that even when we are
deciding to follow our instincts even on someone else’s suggestion we shouldn’t
forget to be *grateful* for its not really an easy thing for people to pour out
their opinion, voices and Ideas to your plight we shall always be grateful all
times.
I was talking with a friend the
other day and she made reference to a situation saying “IF I WAS A BOY, GIRLS
HEART I WOULD TOSS” at first I was shocked and surprise as this was coming from
a girl who I believe wouldn’t want this to happened to her so I asked her why
she says so “it’s the norm” she said at first I ask myself why do most people
do to other what they don’t wish to be done to them it really hurt me as I kept
thinking about it but on a second thought if a child grows in a place where
everyone plays football he too would tend to play football even if he doesn’t
take it up later in life but at some certain point in time he would be or wish
to be an active participant in football.
So maybe that’s her case as he has
been made to believe it’s the norm meaning she is used to seeing this happens
and mind you that this is coming from a girl doesn’t mean that this is what
most girls feel for I think this is just a one person opinion to how life is and
on my opinion I think it’s a wrong perception of life. And it boils down to
LOVE would now be used as a disguise for hurting people, breaking hearts and
causing pain on another.
I feel pained within me writing this I sincerely feel
we would look inwards before doing things for there is more to life than how
and what we see it as. And I beg you all may we not be judge over people for we
don’t know what they are going through, the reason why they do what they do,
where they re and how they are and also not envious of people but as propagators
of love and a member of the BIG VERVEARDORFAMILY we should preach love, be
love, inspire love and show love and finally lets learn to pray in our various
ways and tongues. Let love lead us.
Thanks again. @Verveardor
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