Our Judgmental Instincts

What others see or say about you doesn’t change the fact of how you see yourself and what platform you build your mindsets which are propellers of our intentions.

Today we talking about our judgmental instincts which is very active in each and every one of us although a situation different people with different way of which they see it, take for example a person haggardly dressed, some people would just come to the conclusion of  seeing him as insane, poor or bad taste of fashion depending on the person judging they might be right nobody is saying just because you ain’t he person in that situation to know the reason for that action you are wrong- no, well back to today we were able to gather some good update for today’s topic.

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It all happened in an online community like #Verveardor family, what was the issue there was an open question if any member of the group could marry a *stripper* they were different responses with respective back up to why they say so but something touched me when someone said “why would a person with complete senses become a stripper”  the user gave his own reasons to back up his claim as to why he said so but the simple question I asked and haven’t gotten an answer is why crucify a stripper for been a stripper after all they won’t be anybody to strip if there is no one to pay that is the simple logic to what I see to it (me been judgmental in my own instincts).

Back to the topic of today how many of us do notice that we have judged knowingly or unknowingly, we have judge in the sense that we have seen someone’s actions as right or wrong even when we ain’t in the shoes of that person. I enter the Discussing table today with this question why are we so quick to judge others? Quick to see the fault in peoples actions even when we are constantly failing to see our own faults and lastly why consoling yourself or concealing your actions with the thought of someone else as a bad person, can that really justify our actions? @Verveardor.

 We all have how we are seeing this issue good, bad or ugly now seeing this issue from another angle let’s say it’s wrong she has no job, she can’t steal and also cant beg for food and moreover is she ask you for help you might not be willing to help even if you do give her bread today are you going to give her tomorrow so before calling what she is doing wrong or right remember that she is feeding her mama from her job, she is footing the bills of her siblings in school of which only her would do as she is the one the whole family leans on at his point what are you going to say about her job, good or bad should we justify it by the end of it or she we look at it the other way round.