THE BLIND CAUSE

Good day good people of Verveardor #verveardorfamily. I want to start by asking this simple question have you been in a situation where something is wrong with someone, somewhere or between persons however the case may be, we find ourselves looking for a solution to the problem unknown to us that the problem lies under our nose if am to use that word, and yet we break doors, clear fields look in and out of the world even pushing a way things but still the problem continues. We shall be discussing about THE BLIND CAUSE kindly stick with us.

I want to start by giving an example I was sharing an experience; two couples living their normal lives as usual moving to the point, the husband comes back from his trip we took on for some days and under the joys  of been with his wife he open heartedly shares his experience on his trip, the ups, downs and every other thing including the types of food he was served and somehow he really praised the dishes and everything was laughed about and went calm some days later his loving wife made a similar dish of what he told her was served where he went.

 He ate and made some observations of which were not favorable or rather where not what was expected I don’t want to talk about how his wife would feel that would be a topic for another day as she only said “it’s never ok” and everything went back to the normal of the day this kept occurring and for some reasons I don’t know maybe she doesn’t want to make an issue out of it she kept the response “it’s never ok” to all the negativity and appreciations she never got but I tell you something we are humans and emotions builds up in us a time would come she won’t take this anymore even if she somehow gets used to it unnecessary issues would be rising every now and then and they would never be relating to the unappreciated gestures showed previously or the emotions contained with the simple phrase “it’s never ok” and anger comes in for no reason at all.

Now what was the bottom line of today’s topic, little things matters a lot those thing we see as nothing might be the whole world to the person next to us it might be all that person need to carry on it may seem small or irrelevant but it’s not and one other thing let’s stop assuming in many situations the man on the other hand may be thinking she knows how I feel but seriously even if she does she hearing it and you saying it is not going to take away the sky above your head same thing goes to our ladies learn to spoil your man and don’t be shy about it or feeling it should be the other way round how do you expect to be treated like a queen from a servant from my observation it has never worked that way treat your man like a king and our men treat your woman as she is the only one in this whole world she deserves the best from back to back.

All am trying to say is let’s be considerate to someone else effort no matter how small it may seem it must not be like the example above let’s look around us and learn to appreciate one another. …

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